Joyce J Roberts
June 29, 1930 - February 3, 2012
My Mother finally succumbed to her long battle with lung disease yesterday. After two lengthy stays in the hospital, she had been receiving hospice care at my brother's home in Georgia for the past four weeks. She had been holding her own until a few days ago, but finally her weakened heart and lungs could do no more, and she drifted peacefully off into eternity early yesterday morning.
We'll certainly miss her, but there's a sense in which I'm relieved that her struggle just to breathe is over. I know toward the end she was very tired, and frustrated that she could no longer do anything for herself. She spent most of her last couple of days sleeping, and at least that made her final days and hours a little less of a struggle.
The above photo was made when she was still Joyce Johnstone back in 1956. This was her engagement photo, the one that was placed in the newspaper with her engagement announcement. She and my Dad were married in April, 1957, and I arrived 11 months later. I only came across this photo recently, and I think it's one of my favorites - Mom in her prime!
Mom had requested that she be returned to New Orleans to be buried next to my Dad, so we'll be making the trip down there tomorrow to prepare for her funeral. As usually happens at these events, we'll recall old stories and memories, and celebrate a life that was filled with love. It will be both a sad and joyous occasion, but one that we all need to experience in order to be able to carry on with life.
Goodbye, Mom. I love you, and I'll miss you!